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01-31-2008 6:42 PM -- By: Amber, Critters.com memorial: Nvwati Memorial Jill I am so sorry for your loss. Loving our furbabies, especially those of us who were honoured to have them in our families for many years, and then losing them is unbearably painful. I lost my beloved Nvwati Sept. 28, 2007 suddenly and unexpectedly and when he died he took a large part of my heart with me. It felt like my heart would explode with the pain. I don't have any children at home now but my other dog Mkwaa grieved him so much she stopped eating, and showed no interest in playing. She was so depressed.She would pace our home constantly looking for him.... I think she thought he was playing hide n seek with her or something.My theory is to tell children the truth. Its amazing how much children understand if we are honest with them. When my son was 4 and my daughter 5 we lost a dear goat we all loved. This was their first experience with death, so I let them spend time with him after he passed away, explaining that his body would leave with his burial but he would always remain a part of my life. To this day they speak of Vincent Van Goat with loving memories. I think keeping death a hush hush topic with children only brings on fear of death, resulting in nightmares. I know how you feel about wanting your sweet Bailey back. I think we all go through this. I found building Nvwati's Memorial helped me tremendously. That and this forum. Great people find their way to critters.com and you will get a lot of support.Take care.
01-31-2008 10:41 AM -- By: Jill NIswonger, Pet's name: Bailey We lost our beautiful girl on Monday, after 12 years with her. I am really having a hard time. My children are also so very upset and the constant questions from a 4, 6 and 8 year olds are almost unbearable. I just want her back.
01-31-2008 6:40 AM -- By: , Critters.com memorial: JD Memorial psst..don't forget mr. jd's birthday..;)
01-31-2008 6:07 AM -- By: Maria , Critters.com memorial: Stacey Memorial I would like to thank eveyone who had signed Staceys Guesbook for her brithday
01-30-2008 11:47 PM -- By: Leigh, Critters.com memorial: Little Bit Memorial I would like to share a verse I found in the Bible today that has helped me a great deal so that I can truly believe for a fact our babies are in Heaven waiting for us. Ecclesiastes 3:19 -21 For humans and animals both breathe the same air,* and both die. So people have no real advantage over the animals. How meaningless! Both go to the same place- the dust from which they came and to which they must return. For who can prove that the human spirit goes upward and the spirit of animals goes downward into the earth? ( (Spirit of animals) Big key here. )
*= another meaning for breathe the same air is "Or both have the same spirit.
Now to me this proves that animals do indeed have spirits. And as the bible is meant for mankind as it is man who has sin, the rules are for man. Animals are free from sin, and therefore, they go up to heaven to wait for us to get there and join them.
I sincerely hope this helps others as much as it has helped me. I had real trouble for awhile trying to stay firm that our pets have spirits but now I do for sure. I cant imagine heaven without birds, butterflys, and our loved pets. Our God is a Kind God and he would have it no other way.
I hope I have not offended anyone with this, if I do, I am very sorry.
As many here have been such great support and understanding, I am hoping this helps you with your loss also.
Thank you for all the great words and support you have all showed me and Little BIt here. I am so glad I found this site, I think you are all a God Send to me and to everyone else here. I wish I Could do more to help y ou as much as you have me and Bitty. Bless you all.
Little bit, I love you baby, I always will , I miss you so much, I just want to hug and kiss you baby.
01-30-2008 5:47 AM -- By: Maria , Critters.com memorial: Stacey Memorial Well Stacey you are now 1 years old. I hope that you are having a great birthday today. I am going to light some candle for you for your birthday. Even though your not here with me I am going to Celebrate it still. I hope you have a good one Stacey and I love you.
01-29-2008 11:35 PM -- By: Annette , Critters.com memorial: Stimpy Memorial Hi everyone! I just wanted to say thanks to Bev (Klaus' mama) and Jeanne (Holly's mama) for their well wishing and help getting me through what was probably the worst birthday ever. Sharing your stories helped more than you know. I know I'm not alone in this. Thanks for caring. God Bless!
01-29-2008 9:07 PM -- By: Kendra, Critters.com memorial: Twister Memorial i just want to let everyone know that I will be posting songs I wrote about twister on a special page on her site. It should be up and running by 1/31/08. Also thanks to everyone who visited Twister.
01-29-2008 5:30 PM -- By: Maria , Critters.com memorial: Stacey Memorial Tomorrow is Stacey's First Birthday she will be spending it over at Rainbow Bridge. If you can stop by her Guestbook that would be great.
01-29-2008 1:17 PM -- By: daisy's mommy kathy, Critters.com memorial: daisy Memorial i would like to thank everyone for the wonderful support that you all have showed me this past six months.. it really great to know that there are so many wonderful people in this world with great big hearts.. i wish i could give each one of you a hug for helping me get though the pain i feel with the passing of my beautiful daisy girl.. i have meet so many wonderful people and amazing babies that have really touched a spot in my heart.. each one of you really have touch my life and have really made a difference i can't thank you enough.. THANKYOU lots of love xoxo
01-28-2008 7:11 PM -- By: Rose, Critters.com memorial: Joseph Memorial I want to thank everyone who has visited my Joseph's Memorial. Thank you for your kind words. I apologize for the delay. It's just that I am still in a lot of pain. I can't get over it. Thank you again for your support. Dear God: Please take away our pain. In Jesus Name I Pray. Amen.
01-28-2008 6:45 PM -- By: Rita Cardinale, Pet's name: Chevy Thank you for this site. It has given me great comfort in sharing my little girl with everyone. I have also so much appreciated all the people who don't even know Chevy and have given great words of comfort to me in her guest book. Thank you all again for your support.
01-28-2008 10:51 AM -- By: daisy's mommy kathy, Critters.com memorial: daisy Memorial well everyone today has been six months now since my beautiful little girl became my little angel watching over us.. i still love and miss her so much.. i know one day i will hold my beautiful little girl in my arms again.. i love you daisy.. you will always be my beautiful girl.. xoxo
01-27-2008 10:22 PM -- By: Leigh, Critters.com memorial: Little Bit Memorial The 25th was my Birthday and I had to get thru it somehow without my baby, It was so hard. I didnt want company, I just crying. Now, today, Dad went back to work since you went to Rainbow bridge, and for the 1st time, I was ALONE. When dad would go to work, then it was you and ME, side by side, enjoying each others company and feeling so loved. I didnt know what to do. Tonite I ran outside and cried up to heaven calling your name. I miss you so much and tomorrow will be 2 weeks. Too many events and everwhere I look, I can see you and I know that would be something you would be doing, or you should be walking and following me around the house, or I should be online with you on my lap . They say it gets easier as time goes by, I think ALOT of time has to go by before I feel better. I sure dont yet. But, I want to THANK everyone her who has been visiting Little BIts memorial and signing onto her guest book, It means so very much to us. I added more picture today, another couple of pages and some of the pictures were really painful to do but I felt I needed to. I know my baby has alot of wonderful freinds now to play with while our babies are waiting for us. Thank you all so much. I dont think I could get thru this without everyone here. And I have been veiwing alot of your babies also and it breaks my heart , all the beautiful stories , I only wish I could of met you all under better circumstances . BUt I also think you are all a God send to me and we help each other get thru. Please continue to visit Bittys Memorial and help me keep her memories alive. God Bless!
01-27-2008 2:48 PM -- By: Jimmy Channell, Critters.com memorial: Ce Ce Channell Memorial CeCe, you have been gone a year today, they say out of sight out of mine. This is no way true. I miss you and love you just as much as ever. I will never forget the day we went to the Vet. That last kiss you gave me I will never forget. I wish I could share it with the world. So they could share it with me. You were so brave, and, I know you were tired of the pain you had to bear for a while. It is so lonely here and everytime I look at your picture helping me drive, I cannot help but cry. We spent so much time going and seeing how muuch you enjoyed to ride. Abbey miss's you also, she still howles nearly every night I know it is her way of talking to you. I am sure you are in a much better place now, and I am sure you have made friend"s with everybody. I miss you being by my side everynight, and when I wake everyday, I think of you. Please remember me in the good ways and Abbey also. Things are just not the same, and I don't think they will ever be. I love toot and will keep in touch... Jimmy,& Abbey Channell
01-27-2008 11:06 AM -- By: Jeanne, Critters.com memorial: Holly Memorial Hi Annette, I also had to go through my birthday with out my Holly. It was just terrible. Not only was it hard going through the day. But I turned 40 yrs too. My family came up and it was very hard keeping a smile on my face. Don't get me wrong, I was happy to see my family. But, the whole in my heart was screaming at my insides all day. Every day was a gift with Holly. So when she wasn't there in body as my special gift it was hard!
Happy Belated Birthday Annette!!!
01-26-2008 10:20 PM -- By: Annette, Critters.com memorial: Stimpy Memorial Hey everyone! I was hoping for some helpful advice. Today happens to be my birthday. It's the first one I had to celebrate without my baby boy, Stimpy, here with me. Bittersweet, as you can imagine, since I don't really feel like celebrating much. But I try to keep a happy face for my family's sake. Well, I was just wondering if anyone else had the same feelings when their birthdays arrived and how did you handle it. It would be good to hear everyone else's experiences. OK well, thanks for listening. Hope to hear from you all soon. Take Care new friends and stay strong!
01-26-2008 7:42 AM -- By: Amber, Critters.com memorial: Nvwati Memorial Sorrow fills a barren space;
you close your eyes and see my face
and think of times I made you laugh,
the love we shared, the bond we had,
the special way I needed you -
the friendship shared by just we two.
The day's too quiet, the world seems older,
the wind blows now a little colder.
You gaze into the empty air
and look for me, but I'm not there -
I'm in heaven and I watch you,
and I see the world around you too.
I see little souls wearing fur,
souls who bark and souls who purr
born unwanted and unloved -
I see all this and more above -
I watch them suffer, I see them cry,
I see them lost, I watch them die.
I see unwanted thousands born -
and when they die, nobody mourns.
These little souls wearing fur
(Some who bark and some who purr)
are castaways who - unlike me -
will never know love or security.
A few short months they starve and roam,
Or caged in shelters - no one takes home.
They're special too (furballs of pleasure),
filled with love and each one, a treasure.
My pain and suffering came to an end,
so don't cry for me, my person, my friend.
But think of the living -those souls with fur
(some who bark and some who purr) -
And though our bond can't be broken apart,
make room for another in your home and
--- Caro Schubert-James ---
In memorium of thoes in our families that make it to the other side before we do ( Our comfort should be in knowing that there waiting for us. )with a stick or ball to play fetch for eternity. where neither will tire.
01-25-2008 4:51 PM -- By: Maria , Critters.com memorial: Stacey Memorial It has been a month and a half now since Stacey has been gone. I still haver her collars right by bed. Same with her blanket that she slept on. I still think about her everyday. I wish that she was able to run around with me again.
Wednesday January 30th will be Stacy first birthday. And she will be spending it over at rainbow bridge with her friends.
01-24-2008 11:38 PM -- By: Leigh, Critters.com memorial: Little Bit Memorial That was a really nice read, Lisa. Its one and a half weeks now since I lost my Little Bitty , my pain is still intense. I have stopped crying ALL day now but I break down alot during the day. I hope it gets better as you all say, right now it doesnt seem like it though. I am surprised though also that I have been recieving sympathy cards in the mail from people I never would of suspected would acknowledge this type of loss. That has helped ALOT and everyone here has been such a wonderful help to me. I cant even begin to tell those of you who have written and visited Little Bits memorial how much help you have been to me. I want to say Thank you to everyone here and Please visit Bitty's site often to help me keep her site alive. It means so much. Lisa, I will think of your words often, they are very meaningful.
Kathy, I understand totally as all of us have gone or are going thru the same along with you. Your Murphy was a special boy and he knows you will never forget him. You keep talking about him too, it helps you heal. It does me . I felt a little better too once we brought Bittys remains home , and if getting another puppy is what you need right now, you go do it. Only you know what is right for you and I almost envy you . I cant do that yet but maybe in time.
God Bless you all.
01-24-2008 8:24 PM -- By: Kathy, Critters.com memorial: Murphy Memorial Tomorrow it will be one week since i lost my Murphy, I still can't believe he's gone, and find myself coming home from work, and opening the the door and saying " Hi baby, I'm home", and looking for him lying on the couch, even though I know he won't be there.
Yesterday we got a message from the vet saying "Murphy has arrived back at the office". We picked up his ashes, which were in a nice tin, with a sympathy card, and rose, and the clay cast of his footprint with his name on it. We are going to see if our friend who does beautiful woodworking, will make us a box to put the ashes in.
I will say that it has gotten a little easier, the worst times as far as me breaking down were when I went back to work, and all my friends, who knew that Murphy was my life, because I would talk about him constantly, knew about Murph's death and all gave me hugs of comfort and words of condolance, and even cards. It's funny, I didn't think many would understand my grief, but alot of them have pets to whom they are greatly attached, though probably not to the extent I was.
Well, I have somewhat of a sense of peace now that Murphy is back home, and Saturday we are going to go look at some puppies. The human mom has sent me pictures of both the mother and father, and also of a sister from a previos litter. The sister looks alot like my Murphy, as does the mother, except for a lot skinnier. The father is a lot lighter in coloring, but both are beautiful dogs! We can't decide if we want a boy or a girl, or a light colored, or more golden reddish color. There are 11 puppies, and my husband says we should just go there and see which pup picks us. I told my husband we should get two, a light and a darker colored one, but I don't think I convinced him!
I am excited to be getting a new baby, but also sad to think that my Murphy can't be here to welcome his new brother or sister. I know that he will be here in spirit, and in my heart.
I never thought that when Murphy died I would get a new boy or girl so fast, but since we decided to get a new pup, some of the heaviness has lifted from my heart, and I was able to stop crying non-stop. I think everyone has to deal with their grief in their own way, but for me, I think having a new baby to love is the way to honor my Murphy's memory. I love you baby!
01-24-2008 6:35 PM -- By: Cheri (Coco's Mom), Critters.com memorial: Coco Memorial Beautiful, comforting words, Lisa. Thank you.
01-24-2008 3:12 PM -- By: Lisa, Critters.com memorial: Samantha Melissa Memorial Hello all ,My prayers and heart go out to each of you .We all have in common two very important things ,the sharing of the joy and fun ,,memories and wonderful lives spent with our little kids with fur.
Each of our "Kids" were precious and amazing in our eyes , they warmed and filled our hearts with the purest of unconditional love .They taught us that love and kindness ,time spent and moments shared are truly the priority of this life . So often we are distracted and busy with the demands that every day live brings but i believe God was lovingly showing us thru this wonderful pets ,so many lasting lessons and "Important invaluable things....Smile.
The second thing we share is the commonaility of Loss....We know each other grief , hurt , pain , moments of utter sadness ....for these kids of our filled a void that few other things can..We have this understanding of love and loss in common. and even as we have this common thread our lives and stories are so veryt unquiqe and differant.
Our pets now reside in the place of peace and love where there every need and desire is met . There only missing one thing ...Us ..just as we are missing them. But as we remember and share are stories and share this grief and pain. Know that you are not alone ,and that these emotions and hurt with time and prayer and the sharing you are doing will help you find your way thru to tomarrow and each day beyond ...
If you pets could speak just one thing to you ...i Know they would say ..Thank you for every belly rub,,every bone ,,every night you made sure i was provided for with dignity , kindness and love. Thank you to each one of you who gave so unselfishly , to their kids...
Every day i remember my Samantha- Melissa Perhaps thru a song ,or a season, ,watching another dog romp and play ,and at times even in the silence...But i remember the moments i was blessed to have her and in that she has a legacy of the most tender and sweetness kind.
Stop by her site , share with me her life and memories she will bless you and make you smile ...Samantha-Melissa Memorial
To all a warm and compassionate hug and smile ...
My prayers and thoughts for healing and peace are with you ...
May the memories you have and made keep you company and make you laugh and smile....
With Warmth....Lisa Little
01-24-2008 2:57 PM -- By: Amber, Critters.com memorial: Nvwati Memorial Thank you those of you who have signed Nvwati's guestbook or sent me emails recently. It means the world to me.
Daily I read over his Memorial and tell myself I have not shown his whole being in his Memorial. Once I am feeling a bit better I hope to spend more time adding more memories, etc. I want the world to know what an amazing boy he was! I don't feel that I have done him justice yet so I hope to do something about that.
It's funny eh how life goes on? Throughout this grief I am dealing with some serious health issues, trying to rest as much as I can, working on getting a manuscript together for my editor and fighting with my computer who crashed on me and now I need to dig out a product key for my word programme or my manuscript goes nowhere. Danged thing came with the computer so if there was a product key for this programme anywhere it went out in the trash GRRrrrrrrrrrr.
Even writing the manuscript reminds me of my boy. I would lay with him and read what I wrote and ask him if it was reading ok. He and I would spend hours just laying together talking. I sure miss this. What I wouldnt give for one more day of attitude from him, one more butterfly kissy, one more snuggle in bed for a few minutes until he decided he was too hot to snuggle any more lol.
01-24-2008 10:09 AM -- By: Amber, Critters.com memorial: Nvwati Memorial OOps sorry Richard. Still, I am sorry you lost him too :(
01-24-2008 8:46 AM -- By: Amber, Critters.com memorial: Nvwati Memorial Tomorrow will mark 4 months since I had to say goodbye to my sweet boy.
Saturday is Yukon Jack's 10th birthday. Nvwati died at age 10 1/2 and I am so greatful that Yukon is still so puppyish but I still can't help but worry that he may not have many years left. Nvwati, after all had never been sick yet died of a massive heart attack.
I find myself often sitting holding Nvwati's urn close to my heart and speaking to him, telling him how very much he was loved (As if he doesnt know! LOL) and how much I miss him.
Mkwaa too, perks her little ears whenever his name is mentioned.
Last night we sat together holding Nvwati's urn and as I was talking about him, she let out little whimpering noises as if to say she misses her brother too.
When will this hurting go away?
01-23-2008 6:10 PM -- By: Richard, Critters.com memorial: Dollie Memorial Amber, thank you for dropping by. Actually, Jake passed away one year ago today. I suppose that he had to go home first to prepair a place for his little sister, Dollie. Thank you again. richard
01-23-2008 5:53 PM -- By: Amber, Critters.com memorial: Nvwati Memorial Richard I am soo sorry to hear that you lost your sweet little Jake today.
What a sweetie he was.
01-23-2008 3:51 PM -- By: bug..;), Critters.com memorial: Dollie Memorial Hey ya'll. When you get a spare minute, stop by my memorial site and look at the new page my daddy created for my brothers. (My Boiz..;) Page) My oldest brother, Jake, he's with me here in Heaven. But I'm sure glad that dad still has Snowball and Zeb to keep him company. Well, take care, chillin'. I love you all so much. bug..;)
01-23-2008 9:02 AM -- By: Lauvern, Critters.com memorial: Luke Memorial AunteeMz. By your comments,i see Wiley is making you smile again. That is great.Somehow these fur babies know how to do that,even at our saddest times.I bet your girls are proud of you for adopting a new baby and giving Wiley the love you gave them.I am also finding myself being able to smile again since i got another baby, Tyson.You can't help but laugh at these pups personalities.Even though i know i will never forget or replace my Luke,i have alot of room left in my heart for fur babies.I know Luke had a paw in me getting my new Tyson.I guess he wanted me to give another baby a home such as he had. I hope Wiley keeps making you smile and lives a nice long life with you. Hugs
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