10-04-2008 9:41 AM -- By: Toby, From:
Hi Shabba Lou! Just wanted to stop by and check on you and your precious mom. Toby
10-03-2008 9:00 PM -- By: puck, From:
hey Shabba...just cking in....i just wanted to let you know my mom appreciates your mom trying to get her fave song on.....out computer at home welll it kinda sucks. i think those are the words mom always used...anyway...i just had to stop by cause i she wanted to have me tell you and your mom thank you for trying....Shabba anytime you want to do something you let me know...that will make my mom happy.....i love you shabba lou...you are so pretty.
10-03-2008 11:47 AM -- By: Luna, From:
Hi Shabba, thanks for catching me big boy (smile)... All my love, Luna
10-02-2008 11:12 PM -- By: Luna, From:
Hi Shabba, we're heading to the beach, the fire should be roaring by now, we have hot coco, blankets, we'll sit around and tell stories, snuggle, and fall asleep under the stars...I love you, Luna...ZZzzZZZ
10-02-2008 10:05 AM -- By: Buddy, From:
Hi Shabba Lou, Me and my mom are thinking of you and your mom and wishing you both love and hoping you find happieness soon. Everyone at RB loves you both!!
10-01-2008 11:31 PM -- By: Sheba, From:
I love you so much, little Shabba! You are one of my sweetest friends, honey. Love, Sheba
10-01-2008 10:34 PM -- By: Stacy, Minnie's Mom, From:
Hi Carole, I know that yesterday was the 3 month anniversary of Shabba Lou's Angel Day. I hope that as times goes by, you are coping a little better day by day. You are in my thoughts! Take care!
P.S. Minnie absolutely loves both Ebony and Shabba Lou, too!
10-01-2008 8:16 PM -- By: Cheri (Coco's Mommy), From:
Carole, you and your babies are in my thoughts. I know how much it hurts to lose them and my heart is with you as you go through your most painful days and nights. You know that I understand. I just wanted to let you know that I am there with you. Love and hugs.
10-01-2008 5:19 PM -- By: Joy, From:
Hi Carole...I read that yesterday was Shabba Lou's 3 month Angel Day. I know you lost Ebony & Shabba Lou close together so your heart has double the pain. I wish I could take it away but just know that I and the others here at Critters are here for you and understand. I also appreciate you coming around and saying HI, it is so nice whenever someone remembers us and our fur babies. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers...xoxo Joy
P.S....I love you Ebony & Shabba Lou & your Mommy! xoxo Joy & "The Kids"
10-01-2008 5:05 PM -- By: brenda and buster, From: united kingdom
Hello Carol and Shabba,
I just popped in and read thats it is three month since you had to let little Shabba go and i now its the hardest ever discuced to do and we never now if we could of kept them longer,
Carol i ask myself every day could i have kept Buster another one day,and i have to tell myself that would of been selfish to keep him in pain, you have always been there for all of us and to me you are a special lady that helped me through some of my really bad times at the begining when i first let Buster go and i thank you for that, and i pray that with time you will be in less pain, your memorial shows so much love for Shabba and Ebony,
love and hugs to you and big kisses for two special boys
10-01-2008 3:54 PM -- By: LISA AND PUCK LLEWIS , From:
CAROLE...HAD TO STOP BY ... WHAT YOU WROTE ABOUT DEAREST SHABBA BROUGHT ME 2 TEARS...IT HAS BEEN 38 DAYS SINCE FOR ME.....SOMETIMES I CANT BELIEVE I MADE IT TO 38.
I DONT KNOW HOW I COULD HAVE DONE IT WITHOUT MY CRITTER FAMILY...I KNOW FOR ME ITS COMFORTING THAT PUCK HAS SUCH GOOD COMPANY...SO MANY OF US ARE GOING THREW SOMETHING SO DEVISTATING ITS OVERWHELMING AND HARD EVEN TO COMPREHEND. I KNOW HE IS WATCHING OVER ME..AND I KNOW HE HAS BEEN MET AND IS IN THE COMPANY OF SO MANY WONDERFUL FRIENDS....THAT TO ME IS COMFORTING..I DONT KNOW WHY...IT JUST IS. YOUR LITTLE CUTEY PIES BOTH EBONY AND SHABBA ARE WITH ALL OF US ... HERE...NOW. EVERYONE THAT HAS LOOKED AT THOSE BEAUTIFUL EYES...READ YOUR MEMORIALS/TRIBUTES/POEMS BOTH SHABBA AND EBONY ARE WATCHING OVER YOU. WE (YOUR CRITTER FAMILY) ARE WATCHING OVER YOU TO.
I KNOW MY CRITTER FAMILY IS SO IMPORTANT TO ME...KEEPING PUCKS MEMORY ALIVE..JUST AS YOU HAVE DONE WITH SHABBA AND EBONY...MAKES ME PROUD TO KNOW YOU ...TO KNOW EVERYONE. THE LOVE WE ALL SHOW EACH OTHER..AND THE LOVE WE HAVE FOR OUR FURBABIES..IT MAKES ME GLAD .IT JUST MAKES MY HEART SMILE, EVEN THO THE TEARS ARE FALLING LIKE RAIN.
I KNOW PUCK IS WITH SHABBA AND EBONY..AND THEY HAVE SO MANY MANY FRIENDS ... LOVE YOU CAROL...
AND I KNOW PUCK SAYS BOTH SHABBA AND EBONY SEE YOU...LOOK TO THE HEAVENS...THEY ARE THERE...
LOVE YOU CAROLE...
PUCK KISSES SHABBA AND EBONY - BOTH BLOWING KISSES ON THE BREEZE...WHOOOOOOOXOXO
10-01-2008 3:00 PM -- By: Greta..Forever Mommys girl, From:
I love you Shabba lou..you shaggy handsome boy!!! Kisses, Greta
10-01-2008 2:51 PM -- By: Calebs daddy & Jasper, From: Mahanoy City, Pennsylvania
Little Shabba,what a beautiful,
beautiful tribute your mommy Carole wrote for you..You Blessed her life as much as she Blessed yours Shabba,and now, together with Ebony,you can both Bless her with those special shared memories only you knew together..
when i lost my Caleb,i didn't know
how i was ever going to survive in this world without him because the emotional emptiness was bottomless..you shared 13 wonderful years and those memories must now see mommy Carole through those most difficult times when she is missing her babies most,and it is in the remembering of every single moment of that time that mommy Carole will know--> she needen't say she was Blessed,for it just was,and her heart was the better for knowing this,as mine was with my Caleb...what a world this would have been if we had never known either of you...your memories and our love will never,
ever fade,or grow old with time..
now we can both picture our Beloveds as young and enjoying renewed health once more,and illnesses such as congestive heart failure and kidney failure do not exist in either of our worlds,and you are free,happy and romping with many,many new friends
and on those special days,you surround us with your Spiritual Peace,and our hearts rest easy..for now,Calebs daddy will say to rest well and know Peace in that love that your mommy Carole is sending your way on "butterfly wings"..each one a treasured memory,for each one is love..rest well beautiful little Angel,rest well.....Carole,our babies are all together,safe,and in Peace.....
10-01-2008 2:37 PM -- By: Nadine & Luna, From:
Happy 3 Month Angel Day Shabba Lou ... I didn't realize when Luna gave you that soft loving kiss from your mama that you've been away from her for 3 whole months ... I'm sorry Carole. I know you miss your boy, I miss my girl too, and what you said about loving them more and doing more, I can relate, I wish it too, but I know both of your precious angels are keeping close tabs on my little one, just as we care with eachother ... Know thoughts of you, your precious babies are always in my thoughts and in my heart. Love always, Nadine & Luna
10-01-2008 2:29 PM -- By: Luna, From:
Hi Shabb-ba Loooooou, Luna sings, I Lovvvve Youuuuu! Come on handsome, let's take a stroll ... (they sit under the big oak tree on a blanket), there ya go, I brought a bag of cookies along w/some hot coco ... I love you! Luna
10-01-2008 12:02 AM -- By: Melissa-Koochy's Momma, From: Rapid City, SD
I am just checking in on you. I read what you wrote below and it brought me to tears. I know how you are and you gave plenty of hugs and kisses. I feel the same way though, that we could have overwhelmed our babies with them. I gave Koochy a lot but still think I could have given more. I sure miss her just like you miss Shabba and Ebony. Its almost been 10 months without her. I worry about Cosmo, but soon I will be home with him again, when baby comes. Baby is due next week. Take care and keep in touch.
10-01-2008 12:00 AM -- By: Annette (Stimpy's Mama), From: New York
Hello Carole and little cutie, Shabba Lou! Thanks for stopping by Stimpy's memorial and leaving such a sweet message. It's so nice to know I have caring friends to help me through the tough times. I hope I can be as helpful to you when you need it most. God Bless you and your little baby, Shabba. Take Care! I love you sweet Shabba! xoxo
09-30-2008 11:09 PM -- By: Broken hearted mommy, From: the path of grief
Today marks three agonizing months without you my little teddy bear. Shabba I love you so much honey, and I miss you more with each passing moment. I hurt so bad right now Shabba. I think about having to make that heart-breaking decision to relieve you of your pain and suffering. I really don't know what's worse...a sudden loss or having to make that dreaded decision. I've felt them both now. I can't get over you and your sis being gone.
The holidays are almost here again. My heart is already breaking, and the tears roll when I think about "two socks" that will be left untouched this year. If only I could have one wish or prayer come true...I'd turn the clock back and wish both you and Ebony back here with us. I'd do things so different...more kisses and hugs, you'd hear mommy say I love you so many times you'd probably get tired of it...more treats...more walkies...more everything.
I'm sorry I have to go boy...I cannot see through my tears. I miss you...oh how I miss you. Be sure and catch all the kisses I blow into the sky sweety...please share some with Ebony. Luv your proud momma.
09-30-2008 6:49 PM -- By: Joy, From: CaDaisyJane@aol.com
We couldn't stop by Ebony's memorial and not stop by to see handsome Shabba Lou!! Don't ever forget we love you (and your Mommy) Shabba Lou...xoxo Joy (Angel, Taffy & Patches Mom)
09-30-2008 3:14 PM -- By: Katie, From: ohio
sry 4 ur loss
09-30-2008 2:22 PM -- By: Luna, From:
Hi Shabba Lou, Oh Luna you've got that look in your eye, Yes Shabba (Luna walks closer), have you heard anything lately Luna, Yes Shabba I did,(Gulp), was it a message from my mom? Oh yes it was, (Shabba begins to blush), and butterfly kisses? Yes, indeed, Luna wraps her arms around Shabba Lou and gives him a warm embrace, and such a soft gentle kiss ... his eyes open, was that it? YES, wow, so soft and gentle, TAHNKS MOM!!! THANKS! Come on Shabba, let's take a walk and look at the clouds, the sky is so blue today ... Love you you alwyas, Luna & her mom
09-30-2008 1:35 PM -- By: Linda (Ceeses's mom), From:
Shabba Lou, you are darling. So lucky to have such a wonderful mom like Carole who loves all her critters so very much. Carole, I so much appreciate that you stop by and see Ceese.
Ebony reminds me so much of my Greta who is now over 11 and showing signs of nearing the end. I often visit Ebony for comfort on Greta's bad days. Linda
09-30-2008 10:55 AM -- By: Buddy, From:
Hi Shabba Lou & Carole, Just stopping in to see how you are both doing. I know you are missing both your babies and wish there were something I could say to ease your hurt. Everyone here at RB loves them & you too!! xxoo Buddy & his mom
09-30-2008 9:03 AM -- By: brenda and buster, From: united kingdom
Hello Carol and Shabba i just poppedin to tell you we love you and always will,
09-28-2008 3:53 PM -- By: puck , From: rainbow bridge by way of st michael mn
hi shabba..just checking in to say hi.....love you
09-28-2008 1:15 PM -- By: Toby, From:
Hi Shabba! Just wanted to stop by and tell you thanks for the birthday wishes! I had so much fun last night at the fall formal, and my birthday cake was great!!!! Thanks for singing "Yappy Birthday" to me!! Love you buddy!!! Toby
09-28-2008 3:44 AM -- By: Nadine & Luna, From:
Hi Shabba & your Mommy Carole, I want to thank you again for always being there for me, I know you were working today and took from your day time to help me, I appreciate that more than you know. It's always nice to know you have someone you can count on, thank you again my friend, and your precious Shabba is with you, he watches over you, and he's brought us together, thank you by,ho wdid you know I needed a friend to talk you. I love you Carole, Nadine & Luna
anytime of the day, I'll always be there if you need me...it warms my heart knowing your there tolisten, whenothers have given up, I'll never forget my baby and she'll always be a part of me, thanks for sharing and caring.
09-28-2008 12:50 AM -- By: Mom, From:
Hello my little Shabba Lou. I need you so bad honey! I am hurting really bad right now. My heart is broken. If only I could bury my face in that soft neck of yours. Oh Shabba I wish I could hold you again. Things that happen day-to-day can bring all that "raw pain" to the surface so easily. I try to be so strong for everyone else, but I guess underneath it all...I am still so very fragile. Thank you for being my boy...I love you baby, and miss you more than you could ever know. Please come visit me in my dreams honey...oh how I need you tonight.
ALLOW US TO GRIEVE
I am sorry if I don't grieve correctly.
Please share with me the standards you use to judge.
In the beginning, if I held my emotions, it wasn't enough.
Yet now you do not wish to be reminded of what I can never forget.
How can one judge someone else’s emotions?
Who are they to say what is correct.
Where does one find the expiration date for grieving their loved one?
Is our pain any less as time goes by?
We are able to get through our good and bad days.
We have had practice now in how to put on a act.
Yes, the world is a stage and I am an accomplished actress.
I am playing the role of my life and I must give it all that I have.
Nobody wants to see my tears now.
No one wants to acknowledge that I still hurt.
Everyone wants life as it used to be. Can't they see that so do I?
Where are the books that tell us when we can feel and when we cannot?
Is there a set formula that we must follow?
Will there be a test we are expected to pass?
Why are we not allowed to have my own feelings?
Until the end of my days I will grieve my losses.
I am sorry if you think I am doing it wrong.
It will be done at my own speed.
They were my children, and not yours.
Please...allow me my grief! ~ author unknown ~
There are many emotions we are hit with in life. Grief is the hardest, filling our hearts with wrenching pain. No one can know grief, until, they lose their loved one. To never hear Shabba again, never see his sweet, sweet smile and sparkling eyes. There is no hurt like it. I wish there was a way I could tell him now how thankful I am that he loved me. I experienced a love and happiness with Shabba that words alone cannot describe...and sometimes not even family or friends understand. A piece of me died the day Shabba and I said goodbye, and another piece of me died when Ebony and I said goodbye.
So, let me grieve my way...give me my time…because I will never get over losing them. I can only learn how to live with this pain. Unfortunately, memories and pictures are not enough. Grief is an emotion that hits so deep, it cannot be explained in words alone.
09-26-2008 12:23 AM -- By: , From:
Nite-nite sweet Shabba. I love you little sweetheart, Richard (and Dollie..;) PS: Quack-quack little man, quack-quack.
09-25-2008 7:31 PM -- By: Luna, From:
Hi Handsome, Don't forget to pick up your shoes for the Fall Formal this Saturday, hope to see yo there in your formal wear...Love, Luna
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